Manual stimulation is much better for me than using a vibrator or water stimulation. I use the middle finger of my right hand in vigorous up and down motions which speed me up even more toward climax. If you don't want a partner eventually, then the only concern is to not let it distract you from having fun. I get faster and usually cum in under two minutes. It's just easier - it's hard to reach inside one's own vagina. Try placing a pillow between your legs and rubbing your vulva, and particularly your clitoris against it. First I caress the outer labia, then around the clitoris, using a circular motion, then I insert a finger in my vagina, while laying on my back or side, and move with it.
Understanding The Clitoris
Sometimes I use two hands on my genitals, but not always. Move your finger s as if you are tracing different letters in the alphabet, starting with A. My favorite is AloeCadabra's Peppermint Tingle. And after I weaned her Masturbating increases blood flow throughout the body and causes the release of endorphins, which are brain hormones responsible for causing pleasure.
Female Masturbation - Rub the Clit
By this time, I'm really wet and can feel myself dripping through the cotton. You need to tease her genitals, not commit a finger-based invasion. Find what feels good and what you like. We have enough to last 10 lifetimes! Usually the lights are out and only candles or a low-illuminating bulb is burning. They come in a variety of different shapes and sizes.
I stimulate myself with lubricated fingers or a vaginal foam applicator or a douche or enema tip. The blood is then trapped here until released via orgasmic spasms. Just as a man's penis swells with blood when he's aroused, women -- or, rather, their clitoris -- can become erect, too. I touch only my genital area when I masturbate, because I am not stimulated by touching my body in general, as I am if my partner touches me all over. This occurs when the vestibular bulbs become engorged with blood during arousal. Be stupidly gentle with it until later in the game.